Pandora's Box???

While a dozen drafts in this black book(secrcy) are left in the cold, this I had to throw out for its been lying there since eternity.(and maybe coz i believe the time is right)
Why do we end up messing things again and again ???(I still wonder about it)....There is always a particular way in which we tackle situations(to each, his own.. ofcourse). No point talking about those we do well in but what about those which dont work out for some reason or the other.
Ever felt a sense of 'De Ja Vu',especially when we mess up ....most of the times its all too familiar(we do come up with new innovations too) but we are pretty adept at coming out with same end results with an alarmingly high success rate.
Does that make this our fault !!!(HELL No.....) Its never our fault(arguably), we cant change the way we think and tackle things ....We just have to ....We just have to leave things to hope....(sounds lame but thts wht everyone does from time to time)...
We are just too stubborn to let go of our convictions( n y shud we...) ....rathr thn change the way we tackle things we just end up being more stubborn(most of the times) coz our convictions cnt be wrong, can they?
And that is where 'HOPE' comes in....convincing us tht we should change the way we think or the way we are just because things dint work out coz thrs alwayz HOPE which stands by us through thick n thin .......stands(will stand) by us when nobody believes in our convinctions.
HOPE lets us keep our IDENTITY